DEBT STRESS:
THE HUMAN SIDE
15th July 2006
Author: Stephen S Alison
In all the technical discussions you hear about credit card
and other debt, the best ways to manage it and pay it off
and all the rest, one important topic goes largely ignored
? "Debt Stress: the Human Side".
Most individuals already know from personal experience that
high credit card debt is bad for their financial health -
the more people worried about debt, the more it affected their
health.
New medical research in the United States indicates that
there is a strong co-relation between high levels of debt
and bad or impaired physical and mental health. According
to the study, people who reported high levels of stress about
debt had more physical problems and reported worse health
than those with lower levels of debt. Furthermore, people
with a high proportion of their income tied up in credit card
and other debt reported that they were in poorer physical
health.
More recently an annual survey of student mental health carried
out in some British universities indicated that more students
than ever are seeking help for depression brought on by "Debt
Stress".
The jury is in - Credit card and other debts are extremely
stressful and can have a very negative effect on your life
and health. It's as bad as an addiction, always hanging over
you, bringing you down, making it hard to life your life the
way you want to. In effect, the more people worried about
debt, the more it affected their health.
The Symptoms of Debt Stress - There are an awful lot of symptoms
that can be evidence of debt stress. Some of the most common
ones are: headaches, not being able to sleep, feeling depressed
and irritable, and being forgetful and unable to concentrate
on what you're doing. If you're not sure whether your symptoms
are related to stress or something else, you should go and
see a doctor.
Who Gets It? - Almost everyone who has debts is stressed
about them. Debt is blamed for millions of days off work every
year, and is one of the leading causes of suicide ? it seems
like most times you read about someone who has committed suicide,
their name is followed by "who owed [a very large amount]
in debts". Students and graduates are especially vulnerable,
as debt is growing amongst them faster than in any other group.
The average adult owes many thousands in debts ? and since
that's the average, it means that many people must owe much
more. Always remember that you're not alone, and there's always
someone worse off than you.
How to Deal With It - Stress caused by debts is often considered
to be embarrassing, or shameful. People with lots of debts
don't want to talk about it, even with their family, for fear
of upsetting people or looking like a failure. It is very
important, though, that you do talk about your problems, as
keeping it all bottled up inside yourself will make you much,
much more stressed. It is especially important that you talk
to your partner ? the number one person who can support you.
The best thing to do then is to find two people: one who
can advise you, and one who can be a counsellor. That means
a professional who knows what they're doing in financial matters,
as well as a psychologist or psychiatrist, or some other kind
of counsellor. Don't let stigmas put you off ? this is about
your health.
The next thing to do is to have a good think about how you
got that debt to begin with. See if you can find old credit
card statements. What did you spend the money on? You need
to sit down, work out a budget, cut unnecessary expenses and
try to free up as much money as you can to pay back debts.
Even if it'll be a long time before you get everything paid
off, knowing that your debt is gradually going downwards can
be an excellent cure for debt stress.
Stephen S Alison is a retired "bean counter" who
spent 26 years in middle management positions for major US
financial institutions in Europe and a further 10 years as
an adviser/consultant to a number of European financial institutions.
He owns and operates a number of "hand built" niche
websites including: http://www.24carat-gold.com http://www.forex-arbitrage.com
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